Esther Perel

Esther Perel is a renowned psychotherapist and author known for her insightful work on modern relationships, sexuality, and intimacy. Born in Belgium to Holocaust survivor parents, her multicultural background deeply informs her understanding of human connection. She is a polyglot, fluent in multiple languages, and trained in cross-cultural psychology, allowing her to work with diverse populations.

Perel’s groundbreaking book, “Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic,” challenges conventional wisdom about long-term relationships, arguing that maintaining desire requires embracing distance and mystery. Her later work, “The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity,” explores the complexities of infidelity in modern relationships.

She is a captivating speaker and has given popular TED Talks. Additionally, Perel hosts the podcasts “Where Should We Begin?” and “How’s Work?”, where she explores relationship dynamics in both personal and professional settings. Her approach is characterized by a blend of clinical expertise, cultural sensitivity, and a focus on promoting open and honest conversations about love, sex, and commitment.

Works

  • Mating in Captivity

    Examining the tension between love and desire, it explores how to sustain passion within committed relationships

  • The State of Affairs

    Examining the tension between love and desire, it explores how to sustain passion within committed relationships

For you

  • The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck

    A challenge to the pervasive cultural obsession with positivity and success

  • Nonviolent Communication

    A guide to compassionate connection through honest expression and empathic listening, fostering understanding and peaceful conflict resolution

  • Digital Minimalism

    An advocate of intentional technology use to focus on values and thoughtfully reject digital distractions for a fulfilling life

  • The Tipping Point

    A deeper understanding of the subtle forces that shape our world

  • The 48 Laws of Power

    A compelling guide to understanding the dynamics of power and influence

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